Saint
of the Gutters
By Megan
Gilbert
“Speak
tenderly to them. Let there be kindness in your face, in your eyes, in your
smile, in the
warmth of your
greeting. Always have a cheerful smile. Don't only give your care, but give your
heart as well.”
– Mother Theresa
We walk by the homeless
everyday
Compassion. Tenderness of heart. A feeling of deep sympathy and
sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune. It seems that, if
compassion is at the very center of the human soul, loving others and
demonstrating kindness toward others would be easy. There would be no barriers
between hearts and no doubts between friends. We could just walk out into the
world and change it, make it better for all humanity. We could touch the lives
of the individuals we encounter and in turn be touched by each of them. But life
does not happen that way. Each day we walk by dozens of people without so much
as a glance in their direction or a single thought about their needs. We pass
beggars on the street and people in our classes who show their breaking heart by
the look in their eyes. Yet there was one who did not turn away, one who stopped
and cared for those who no one else would touch – Mother Teresa. Why was she
able to stop and heal those around her while we are so unwilling to put
ourselves out there? Why are we afraid of doing something great?
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The homeless we walk by
everyday
The truth
is, we are afraid – afraid to be seen, afraid to stand
out. Human nature is “most comfortable in a familiar role in which it knows
exactly what’s expected of it.”2 Every time we try to step out of our
comfort zone, self-doubt bursts forth from our very beings and confines us
to familiar
roles. We don’t know how to be that person who speaks
to the homeless and the mentally ill. Often, we don’t know how to be the person
doing what is right, even if we are uncomfortable doing nothing. Our own insecurity results in our
placing labels on those we help. We become the “helpers,” and they become the
“helped.” We differentiate ourselves from those we help. They feel this
difference and it leaves them with a “feeling of not being seen as
whole.”3 Mother Teresa succeeded in dismantling the barriers and
truly and humbly serving those who are exactly the same as those we pass each
day. We, in turn, must eliminate the labels and the differences we perceive
between ourselves and others. We must realize that we all should fall under one
label of “deserving people.” Only then we can continue the path Mother Teresa
began and truly begin to touch lives and change the world. Few people in this
world can accomplish the feat of unselfishly and whole heartedly loving and
serving others. Mother Teresa was one of those who transcended labels and
stereotypes, fortune and suffering, and truly touched the lives of those she
served.
4
Mother
Teresa served the poor of
Born Agnes
Gonxha Bojaxhiu on August
26, 1910, Mother Teresa grew up in
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Mother Teresa as a young
woman
Sister
Teresa’s response to this high calling was to request permission to leave her
order, and in 1948 she moved to the slums of
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9
Mother Teresa caring for
an abandoned child and poor people on one of the Homes for the
Dying
Not only
did Mother Teresa devote her life to serving the despondent, but she completely
integrated herself into the culture. She became an inhabitant of the Some of the children I
have cared for on a mission trip to 10
and
security of the convent and to place herself among the poor, the dying, and the
unloved. Every penny she had went to clothe, feed, love and give hope to those
who were lost in an abyss of shame, disease, and poverty.
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Some
of the children I cared for on a mission trip to
Mother
Teresa’s example has shown me that I must step out of my comfort zone and shed
the role of the “helper” in order to truly serve those
around me. If I keep distance between those I help and myself, I am not adding
to their well being, but rather hindering it. By failing to cast off the labels
so often placed on others, I continually remind those who are suffering of their
pain, their supposed inferiority, and their helplessness. Instead, I want to
bring the light of hope into the dark corners of the world. I want to make
helping others my life. I want to
follow in the large footsteps of Mother Teresa and make a difference in this
world, one day at a time, one life at a time. I want to let people know they
matter, one person at a time.
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Mother
Theresa: Saint of the Gutters
Mother
Teresa began life in humble surroundings. Her life ended as humbly as it began.
Despite the fame and recognition she received, Mother Teresa never left her
people. She lived among them and worked for their well being until she drew her
last breath. She lived a selfless life, one that should be admired by all who
strive to bring peace, love, and good health to the world.
Endnotes
1. Image
from www.myownliccleworld.wordpress.com.
2. Ram
Dass and Paul Gorman. How Can I Help? (
3. Ram
Dass and Paul Gorman. How Can I Help? (
4. Image
from www.guglaghistory.org.
5. Quote by
Mother Theresa. Found on “Mother Theresa of
6. Image
from www.ewtn.com.
7. Quote by
French President Jacques Chirac. Found on “Mother Theresa of
8. Image
from www.ewtn.com.
9. Image
from www.mothertheresasociety.org.
10. Image
by Megan Gilbert, 2006.
11. Image
from srichinmoybio.co.uk.
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