Saint of the Gutters

By Megan Gilbert

 

“Speak tenderly to them. Let there be kindness in your face, in your eyes, in your smile, in the

 warmth of your greeting. Always have a cheerful smile. Don't only give your care, but give your heart as well.”

 – Mother Theresa

 

We walk by the homeless everyday

 
Compassion. Tenderness of heart. A feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune. It seems that, if compassion is at the very center of the human soul, loving others and demonstrating kindness toward others would be easy. There would be no barriers between hearts and no doubts between friends. We could just walk out into the world and change it, make it better for all humanity. We could touch the lives of the individuals we encounter and in turn be touched by each of them. But life does not happen that way. Each day we walk by dozens of people without so much as a glance in their direction or a single thought about their needs. We pass beggars on the street and people in our classes who show their breaking heart by the look in their eyes. Yet there was one who did not turn away, one who stopped and cared for those who no one else would touch – Mother Teresa. Why was she able to stop and heal those around her while we are so unwilling to put ourselves out there? Why are we afraid of doing something great?

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The homeless we walk by everyday

 

The truth is, we are afraid – afraid to be seen, afraid to stand out. Human nature is “most comfortable in a familiar role in which it knows exactly what’s expected of it.”2 Every time we try to step out of our comfort zone, self-doubt bursts forth from our very beings and confines us

to familiar roles. We don’t know how to be that person who speaks to the homeless and the mentally ill. Often, we don’t know how to be the person doing what is right, even if we are uncomfortable doing nothing.  Our own insecurity results in our placing labels on those we help. We become the “helpers,” and they become the “helped.” We differentiate ourselves from those we help. They feel this difference and it leaves them with a “feeling of not being seen as whole.”3 Mother Teresa succeeded in dismantling the barriers and truly and humbly serving those who are exactly the same as those we pass each day. We, in turn, must eliminate the labels and the differences we perceive between ourselves and others. We must realize that we all should fall under one label of “deserving people.” Only then we can continue the path Mother Teresa began and truly begin to touch lives and change the world. Few people in this world can accomplish the feat of unselfishly and whole heartedly loving and serving others. Mother Teresa was one of those who transcended labels and stereotypes, fortune and suffering, and truly touched the lives of those she served.

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Mother Teresa served the poor of Calcutta

 

Born Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu on August 26, 1910, Mother Teresa grew up in Macedonia, the youngest of three children. As a teenager, Agnes was an active participant in her local parish’s youth group, Sodality. Through her dedication and involvement in this group, she soon developed an interest in missions. At seventeen, she felt called to become a Catholic nun and to be a missionary. She joined the order of the Sisters of Loretto, known for their mission work in India, and took the name Sister Teresa after Saint Thérèse of Lisieux. Shortly after becoming the principal of St. Mary’s High School in Calcutta, Sister Teresa contracted tuberculosis and was sent to Darjeeling to recover. On her way, she experienced her second call, what she called “the call within the call.” She was told by God “to leave the convent and work with the poor, living among them. It was an order. [She] knew where [she] belonged but [she] did not know how to get there.”5

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Mother Teresa as a young woman

 

Sister Teresa’s response to this high calling was to request permission to leave her order, and in 1948 she moved to the slums of Calcutta to better understand and serve those around her. She established schools for the children of impoverished families. She learned basic medicine and entered the homes of the poor and suffering, treating their physical and emotional wounds. Some of her pupils joined in her efforts, and formed the group known as the Missionaries of Charity. They opened the first Home for the Dying, which opened its arms to men, women, and children who previously had been turned away by the local hospitals. Her efforts led to the world wide founding of charitable organizations and the establishment of safe-houses for those cast out by societies. Mother Teresa gained world wide recognition for her kind work and tireless efforts to bring world peace. Numerous humanitarian awards were bestowed on her, but she selflessly gave all the money to the poor of Calcutta and the furthering of her ministry. When asked how she funded her programs, she answered “by faith.” She had faith that God would provide her with the resources to take care of His people, and He did. Her works of mercy knew no bounds; her love knew no limits. When she passed away in 1997, French President Jacques Chirac said, "This evening, there is less love, less compassion, less light in the world. She leaves us a strong message, which has no borders and which goes beyond faith: helping, listening, solidarity."7

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Mother Teresa caring for an abandoned child and poor people on one of the Homes for the Dying

 

Not only did Mother Teresa devote her life to serving the despondent, but she completely integrated herself into the culture. She became an inhabitant of the Calcutta slums in order to fully understand the plight of the residents. I often think of going to Africa or Asia once I have my medical degree to set up a free clinic for a few weeks each year, but not once do I think to go and to stay permanently. Not once do I think to dedicate all of my being, my life, my materials possessions, and my time to help others around me. I saw myself having a life in my country with my family, working in a hospital, and volunteering at a local clinic. I never envisioned myself out of that temporary missionary role. I saw two separate lives: one with my family at home and one on missions with the needy. Helping others will be a significant part of my life. For Mother Teresa, serving others was her life. Actually dedicating myself to others would be difficult, yet, Mother Teresa did just that. She chose to leave the comfort

Some of the children I have cared for on a mission trip to Juarez

 

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and security of the convent and to place herself among the poor, the dying, and the unloved. Every penny she had went to clothe, feed, love and give hope to those who were lost in an abyss of shame, disease, and poverty.

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Some of the children I cared for on a mission trip to Juarez

 

Mother Teresa’s example has shown me that I must step out of my comfort zone and shed the role of the “helper” in order to truly serve those around me. If I keep distance between those I help and myself, I am not adding to their well being, but rather hindering it. By failing to cast off the labels so often placed on others, I continually remind those who are suffering of their pain, their supposed inferiority, and their helplessness. Instead, I want to bring the light of hope into the dark corners of the world. I want to make helping others my life. I want to follow in the large footsteps of Mother Teresa and make a difference in this world, one day at a time, one life at a time. I want to let people know they matter, one person at a time.

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Mother Theresa: Saint of the Gutters

 

Mother Teresa began life in humble surroundings. Her life ended as humbly as it began. Despite the fame and recognition she received, Mother Teresa never left her people. She lived among them and worked for their well being until she drew her last breath. She lived a selfless life, one that should be admired by all who strive to bring peace, love, and good health to the world.

 

 

Endnotes

1. Image from www.myownliccleworld.wordpress.com.

2. Ram Dass and Paul Gorman. How Can I Help? (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, Inc., 2005), 24.

3. Ram Dass and Paul Gorman. How Can I Help? (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, Inc., 2005), 28.

4. Image from www.guglaghistory.org.

5. Quote by Mother Theresa. Found on “Mother Theresa of Calcutta: Peacemaker, Pioneer, Legend.” 7 Feb 2007 <http://www.ewtn.com/motherteresa/life.htm>.

6. Image from www.ewtn.com.

7. Quote by French President Jacques Chirac. Found on “Mother Theresa of Calcutta: Peacemaker, Pioneer, Legend.” 7 Feb 2007 <http://www.ewtn.com/motherteresa/life.htm>.

8. Image from www.ewtn.com.

9. Image from www.mothertheresasociety.org.

10. Image by Megan Gilbert, 2006.

11. Image from srichinmoybio.co.uk.

 

 

 

 

 

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